Boundaries to Feel Better

Fairy tales can turn into nightmares…

Imagine having a beautiful home surrounded by spacious, lush acres of land. You have a swimming pool and a Jacuzzi. A barbecue grill and a fire pit are off to one side to help you enjoy those quiet summer nights. The nights are heaven as you stretch out in your chaise lounge chair, looking up at the stars.

Then, the neighbors show up.

You notice that the sprinkler system you installed to water your lawn has been dug up and placed on your neighbor’s property. To add insult to injury, they tapped into your water and electricity to run it.

Last week, as you were sunning yourself around the pool, the neighbors and their kids showed up and took over the place. They stayed out there until the wee hours of the morning. When you asked them to leave, they got angry and said, “Who died and made you king? All you ever think about is yourself. You think you are better than us, don’t you?”

The moment of truth…

This story has been made up, but in an authentic way, it’s your story, too, isn’t it?

You want to enjoy all of what you worked so hard for… but some people are taking advantage of your kindness and goodness.

Their motto is: “What’s mine is mine, and what’s yours is mine.” If they make a mess, it’s up to you to clean it up. If they have a demand, it’s up to you to fill it.

If you don’t or object, then you are made to feel like a selfish, uncaring person.

Tired of it yet?

Well, of course, you are. It’s exhausting.

However, the real question you should be asking is: “Am I ready to do something about it?”

I’m guessing you are since you have read all of this. That’s music to my ears because I know I can help you set and keep healthy boundaries.

What makes me so confident?

It’s because at least 90% of my clients are people just like you who want to live their lives on their terms and not feel bad about it.

Do something about it!

If that sounds like what you want, there is a button below to schedule a free 20-minute consultation with me.

We will schedule your first session if you like what you hear during our conversation.

It’s time to get your life back!

I’m here to help. All you have to do is reach out. Call (336) 310-5112, and let’s get started!